Saturday, February 6, 2010

Reflections on the Ocean

Our friends went to Cotuit, MA, to stay at the Chessman Family house for a little weekend get-away. Since most of us could only stay for Saturday night, it was just a short holiday on Cape Cod, which is quiet and serene in the wintertime. Year round residents on the cape manage to keep a few restaurants and businesses open, but many of the homes are dark without their summer visitors and the beaches tend to be empty.

I couldn't keep myself from the ocean for long though, knowing it was close by. Late on Saturday afternoon I said to Terry, "Let's go down to the beach."
"Sure, Sunny -- let's go", she replied.


Unlike the summertime when you could easily walk or bike the mile between the house and the beach, we quickly decided to bundle up and drive down to the empty Beach Parking lot. The beach was covered in bootprints rather than footprints. A few gulls and shore ducks milled around but no one else was there. It was so quiet and serene.




I started to think of my Dad as I often do when at the ocean. He always loved sailing and stories of the sea, and I imagined the coastline at Cotuit probably had a long history of settlers and natives mingling on the shores...maybe even a pirate ship or two making a stop at this quiet bay. Arrr, pirates! Dad always loved stories of pirates.

But instead of pirates this beach was only frequented by gulls and geese, occasional mallards and other shoreline ducks, most of whom had gone south for the winter. A few remained and as Terry and I watched the birds, I told her how my Dad (7-15-49 /12-11-09) would have loved this place. He wouldn't get to see it in person. although I felt his presence strongly from time to time while walking there. But someday, she reassured me, we would have a little reunion on these shores.

So I collected a few shells, packed up my talk of memories with him in the fading sun, and drove us back to the quiet little house. A warm fireplace and game of Apple-to-Apples let us wile away the evening, drinking and laughing among friends, much like any good pirate would.





Monday, November 23, 2009

Thanksgiving approaches!

A new camera arrived just in time for the holiday season, so we snapped a couple of test photos.


This new piece of hardware takes pictures, captures HD video, and would probably mow the lawn, if we had one.


Did you know digital cameras can wear out? While Sunny's HP PhotoSmart still takes pictures, they sometimes fail to transfer onto a computer successfully, so we're forced to just delete them instead. :-P

In order to comply with all Internet regulations, here's a picture of our cat.


Looking forward to this thursday, when we make bread and cranberry sauce for a friend's Thanksgiving dinner!

Sunday, September 6, 2009

PAX 2009 - A weekend away


We came, we met friends, geeks, and cos-players (costumed characters from other worlds). We also saw a great Saturday night concert of synth pop musicians, Freezepop. A good time was had by all !
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Saturday, August 15, 2009

Falmouth, Cape Cod Weekend

Food tables overflowed with savory and sweets alike to compliment the turkey chili that Courtney makes weeks and months in advance for the Falmouth Road Race post-race party. The scene was boisterous and loud at Courtney and Carolyn’s annual party, a tradition since 1972. Dozens of families and friends had come from all around the Cape, but especially from the Falmouth and Woods Hole towns. Each guest brought another pie, cheese, or plate of cookies, adding to the already full tables. In addition to food, two kegs of beer were tapped and many bottles of wine were opened. The pours were generous but more kept coming along with sodas and Capri Sun pouches for the kids. The crowds at Courtney's rivaled those at the race earlier...



Hoards of grandparents and kids swarmed the yard, deck, and house at the feet of the able-bodied adults, most of whom were current/former runners. Guests swapped stories of the day’s run, running club gossip, and tales of old/new running injuries. (For more on my run and fitness-oriented weekend at Falmouth, please see my SunnyDayFitness blog here). Ulandt must have introduced me to a dozen people, but eventually we all lost track of each other’s names, gave up on conversation, and just enjoyed the party. In the backyard, an old-time Dixieland jazz band entertained with horns, a banjo, a trombone and drums. Dancing started on the lawn as the sun was setting over the marsh at the backyard’s edge. Lights came on over the bandstand illuminating smiling faces like fireflies in the night. It was so loud at times that I sometimes found myself at the fringe edge of the party, seeking solace in the quiet side garden out of sight of the guests and hosts. Contrast this exuberant scene with the calm disappointment found in my failed attempt at bioluminescent critter-finding later that same evening.

After the party had reached its zenith, my friend Ulandt and I ventured down to the water’s edge at Woods Hole with hopes of seeing funny little jellyfish that glow in the dark. Ulandt said that he had seen the bioluminescence many times before on summer nights like these. To get to the best viewing area we drove a long, winding dark road that is part of the Cape Cod Marathon course: Sippiwessett Road. The air was dark and cool and smelled like summer. Arriving at the harbor we decided to stay near the harbor docks and peered into the rippled water’s edge. Nothing. No glowing baubles or fishes could be seen in the depth or at the shores. Only dark and quiet gently moving water. Ulandt decided that a little disturbance could help our efforts, so he dipped a foot into the water’s surface and kicked it around a little. We waited and looked. Still nothing. He had seen the bioluminescent “ctenophores” before, but I never had, and this was not to be the night for me to see them. Here's what we were looking for, the ctenophore:


So we went home, and took advantage of the extra time to sleep on that calm summer night. By 11pm Ulandt had retired to the back cabin while I stayed awake in the main house. I plotted out the route on the map for the “return to Plymouth and catch the train” ride: 30-35 miles. I would just need to cross the Bourne Bridge and make my way to Plymouth for the Commuter Rail. Eagerly anticipating the journey ahead, I drifted off to dream about the glowing sea creatures still to be seen on a future visit to the Cape. P.S. I did just barely make it to the Commuter Rail the next day; on board the departing train at 12:10pm.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Gus-tastic!


Here is my nephew, Gus, age 12 months.

At 1 year old he can sit, squeal, give people "the stink eye" and make friends with other babies and toddlers at restaurants. He's a pretty social little guy.
















Some great baby-like things that I love about him are:
  • Still bathes in the kitchen sink, but is eating real food now even if fully pureed.
  • Enjoys naps in his car sets and doesn't mind the stiff breeze from the Jeep with the doors off -- though I do wonder if baby-seats were really designed for Jeeps!?
  • Loves to be upside down and spun around, too!

He's my kind of nephew. Check him out...




































I think he'll be a wedding singer someday.


Now for the videos -- prepare yourself for the Cute!
Isn't it cute how he rearranges the magazines and catalogs;


so here's my attempt at 12 seconds of maximal Gus cuteness.

Gus gets distracted by magazines



I have several great Gus photos from the recent trip, but this one is among the best. I tell ya, the kid was *obsessed* with magazines!

He would spread them out all over and flip through the smaller, kid-sized (or probably purse-sized) ones as if he wanted to read or order something. Maybe he'll convince mommy and daddy to buy something nice for themselves? He's such a cutie.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Family visit to Aaron and Stacey + Nephew GUS in Raleigh

These photos and many more were uploaded to flickr for matthewsunessa today. Feel free to browse the whole photos set "Raleigh Visit 2009" for more photos, witty titles, and so on.

It was really nice to meet Gus -- more photos of him in the next posting -- and to reconnect with Aaron and Stacey. They are wonderful hosts, easy to be around as friends, and a joy to call "family". I enjoy how much they laugh together and how clearly they enjoy their son, home, and garden that they've grown there in Raleigh.

We saddle up to the ice cream bar



Aaron gives the Meredith College campus tour

Aaron gives the Meredith College campus tour




Aaron and Stacey with their gelatos
Matthew and Stacey with their gelatos


Me and the weeping redwood


Sunny and the weeping redwood




We look forward to seeing the campus in full bloom next spring, and to seeing another birthday (many more actually!) for our little Gus-ster. I know he'll be a toddler soon, but what a little chunk he is now!